Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder

The saying “Beauty is in the eye of the beholder” is never more true than when it comes to romantic relationships. Another saying that also applies is “Man was not created equal and neither was Woman.” You can simply look around you to know that these are both very true statements.

There are both women and men that are so achingly beautiful you simply must stare at them. Then, on the other hand, there are those unfortunate people that had to have been standing in the very back of the line when looks were handed out.

Yes, there are people of all different degrees of beauty and plainness. You may feel that only the more attractive people on earth have a chance at true happiness in love. However, you would be wrong if you feel that plainer people cannot find their own true love. Fortunately, there are many people in the world that look deeper than only the physical beauty of a person.

You should always remember that a person’s looks does not denote what type of person they are. Many physically beautiful people are wonderful to look at but when you get to know them, you find that they have a completely black soul. These people are no longer beautiful in any sense of the word because of what they really are. Once this is discovered, it becomes difficult for these people to find someone to have a relationship with.

Think of all the times you see couples that seem to be mismatched from a physical viewpoint. For instance, the woman may be gorgeous; a perfect 10, while the man she is staring at so adoringly would probably not be noticed if he were not with her. He can be shorter than she is, overweight, or just basically not attractive at all. Yet, when the woman looks at him, you can tell that she see no one else in the room.

What do you suppose brought this unlikely pair together? Obviously, this man has such great inner beauty that it shone through the more this woman got to know him.

Getting to know someone from the inside out is one of the many reasons that online chats and dating sites can be good ideas as long as everyone is being honest about themselves. It’s very easy to fall in love this way even if you’ve only seen a picture of the person.

Many couples fall in love without having seen even that much of each other. All they know or care about is that they have hooked up with a decent, loving, considerate, and beautiful person inside. The rest of it doesn’t really matter after all.

In addition, you should remember that not everyone sees beauty the same way. Not everyone has to be Barbie and Ken. Things can just as easily work out for Beauty and The Beast. It totally depends on what qualities individuals are looking for as to whether or not they will find them, and how they will find them.