A trend that is growing slowly and silently is men that are choosing to forego sex outside of marriage. While this is still not the norm by any means, more and more women are running into men that let them know upfront that they will not be having sex with them unless they end up being married.
For many women, this is a deal breaker because, typically, sex has become a very important and integral part of all romantic relationships. It’s a little unsettling to know that you may never have your sexual needs met unless you marry this person.
It’s important to understand that there’s nothing wrong with this group of men. They have just made a lifestyle choice and it’s what they are most comfortable with. The main reason that men choose to remain virginal until after the marriage ceremony is due to religious convictions on their part. As most people know, celibacy and/or abstinence are mainstays of all mainstream religious teachings. Therefore, if you truly believe in your chosen religion and you are fully convinced that remaining a virgin is vital to your spiritual and religious good health, you won’t be engaging in sexual activity until after you have been joined to another through marriage.
Generally, if you’re a woman that has enjoyed a healthy sex life for several years, you will probably want to refrain from dating these men. That has more to do with getting used to certain behaviors than anything else. If you’re accustomed to having sex with someone once you’re involved with him romantically, dating a man that is saving himself for marriage may turn out to be a huge disappointment. While there’s a lot to be said for the sexual heat in that type of relationship, it may also lead to marrying way too soon just because you can’t stand not having sex any longer. Getting married just to have approved sex is never a good idea.
Women on the hunt rarely have any hints or warnings ahead of time when they see these men that want to save themselves for marriage. They look just like any other man and a lot of them are heartbreakingly gorgeous. That makes it all the more difficult for women when there’s definitely a spark of interest and an attraction between them.
Something else that women should be aware of about these men is that it is always the woman that must decide what she wants to do. The men are willing to date and be in a relationship with women who like sex. In fact, most of them don’t even demand that the women they date be virgins as well. They just have to understand that sexual consummation is not going to be taking place unless they get married.
Something you can usually count on with these men is fidelity. If that’s something important to you, then giving these types of men a chance may end up giving you everything you want. The choice is yours.